This Is It.
This is it! this blog managed to gather quite a numbers of Old friends to be together again during our college time 
. basically I feel happy about it and for sure most of my friends feel happy about it too. Well if you don’t that’s mean you don’t really care about friendship.
Along the way, we all shared Loads of happy and fun moments together as a friends. Some get together very well. Some treasure every moments we shared and had as a friends but some just simply think the other way round.
we had joy, fun, laughters, smile and happiness together right guys? however, some people think and believe some of the photos an the greatest moments we shared together are not safe enough for viewers specially the photos.
To all, i would like to give some short and simple clarification here. Anything to do with my post, my photos, friends photos are meant to appreciate and to remember all the moments we all had as a friends 2 years ago, just don’t twist the facts on anything you read or speculate my stupid english post and all my friends who participated on the post comment area… for sharing their views, teasing each others and making fun about past stories.
It is actually funny what others people have in their mind, how they understand about my posting here. Anyway, as the title goes, THIS IS IT, one day one of us, will understand and feel sorry about what we did and what we shouldn’t do to our friends .
But don’t worry, friends come and go, 1 die 1 datang lagi, 1 datang 1 go laie betul? ibarat siang dan malam silih berganti, ibarat matahari dan bulan yang kekadang bertembung antara satu sama lain, dan ketahuilah, Bila masa itu kamu telah menyedari yang kamu telah melakukan kesilapan, kesedaran yang datang itu sudah terlambat.
Betul, setiap kesilapan, kesalahan, kemarahan, sentiasa boleh dimaafkan, tetapi, pada saya, tidak semua kategori kesilapan berada pada kategori boleh dimaafkan. Suatu masa nanti kamu akan mula tersedar, tiada apa yang lebih penting dalam dunia ini daripada mempunyai sesorang disisi anda yang mencintai anda walau dalam keadaan apa sekali pun.
memberi sokongan walau dalam keadaan apa sekali pun, memberi cinta kasih walau dalam apa keadaan pun. setiap ayat ini tidak akan bererti pada ketika kamu sedang membacanya.. tetapi bila masa itu tiba, bila masa itu berada didepan mu, kamulah orang yang merasa segala galanya.
ketahuilah, bintang akan sentiasa berkelip diwaktu malam walau tidak berteman bulan.
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“masa nanti kamu akan mula tersedar, tiada apa yang lebih penting dalam dunia ini daripada mempunyai sesorang disisi anda yang mencintai anda walau dalam keadaan apa sekali pun”
Mencintaimu… lebih dari dari apapun, Meskipun tiada satu orang pun yang tahu… ai ai ai… nda blh diteruskan… bahaya ni lagu ni… tetttt tettt tetttt….
It hurts just as bad when someone you care about walks away from you… aiii, emo sendiri2… nda tau ada kaitan atau nda sama ni post… lol
Emo mode kijap… lol
My Limadanglian friends (u know who u R) esp to Benny, thank you for this blog… coz this is where I got my chance to know such a beautiful friends like you guys… and I will appreciate our friendship for as long as I can… mmuahhhh… mmuahhhh
P/S like u said, it is only a matter of choice… either u chose ur love one or your friends… only u have the answer… but if u can have both, that would b great =)
Mandy…cukup la tu lagu..nanti ada org terasa lagi…wakakakakakakakkaka
Ben…I honestly think that there’s no need to lock the post whatsoever…since every1′s got freedom of speech kan…names were not mentioned…u were talking bout general things. Things that could happen to anyone anywhere. Bagi siapa2 yg terasa, apa blh buat….but..Ive nothing against u locking the post la…to respect them…
From now on, anyone yg ada gambar outing..hanging out with friends…and if the pictures ada yg nda ngam…pandai2 la ah..len kali bagus jan ambil gambar langsung
What u said that in the end, nothing really matters but the one by your side who loves u, that’s true indeed. Trust. And no matter how others batu api your marriage or so forth, nothing could go against the both of you. Plus, noone is making fun of your marriage.
Elaine… tulah sa terstop tu… bahaya tu lagu… tapi jajal juga mo ksh masuk… lol… agree with u on the last part bout the trust thingy! It is gud to have sum1 by ur side to trust, believe n support you even if it means that u r doing sumting wrong in the eyes of others…
hahaha..mandy,macam sia kanal saja tu lagu tau tapi dimana ah?!! anyways,i have updated myself wit all the fuss that is going on in kk and i do agree wit all of the comments not bcos ben is my long time fren but bcos he is in the “right” side of things..
ben..wat u say here about frens is totally true..some come n some go..gud frens r here to stay while bad ones will go away..
shud i write sumting???? i shud…
first of all… wat benny wrote here in the post i totally agree… i think this blog has made us closer..colllege friends…and also made new frens along the way…like MANDY and RUTH …i must confessed i was not close to my COLLEGE FRIENDS… im only close to my DSK class… to tell u the truth…the ones that im close too..buli kira ba… Mark tidak ebrapa close because lain kelas… Mae pun kan…pun tidak berapa…sorry mae…tapi betul kan..only wen this LIMADANG came up…we became very close… im SO GRATEFULL…. i din realise how much i missed all this GREAT FRENS in college… like ABBA would sang “Thank you for the music”… but i’ll sing it the other way…my way with the same tune ..
“THANK YOU FOR THIS BLOG BEN…”
i also din realise that we have been like FAMILY for the past 2 years..since our 1st gathering in BBQ STEAMBOAT..(is it or our 1st get together was my Birthday)… and i remember… Elaine followed me… since then she became a part of this CLAN too… WE BECAME CLOSE… but did u guys realised also when something happen.. the “INCIDENT” about few days ago… all of us stand up for each other…back benny up…it shows how how close we are…sampai ada conference di LINTAS ah… mandy di sandakan pun dpt report… apalagi luke di aussie… wakaka….
But these past few days…. i open up my blog, ben’s blog and photos in facebook..how i miss those days…all of us…like everyweek nie ada outing…haahah…sampai coming to my house for raya…but last raya tidak semua datang ah..if this year juga some of u tidak dtg…jaga ah..putus kawan….ahaha… yg dtg last year please maintain ur attendance this year… for those who din come last year… u shud pay me back this year by showing up… if not you hve to make PUBLIC APOLOGIES…for not coming… hehehehe
mcm sa pun jadi emo nie..menaip..semua mandy sama mae punya salah..sebab kamu dua punya nama ja keep coming up…
wat had happened few days ago was quite dissapointing for me.. i was actually will not comment anything about it because most of my FRENS and KIPOHCHI sister have said everything that i want to say…but eventhough benny says… But don’t worry, friends come and go, 1 die 1 datang lagi, 1 datang 1 go laie betul? …. but it HURTS…and sad to loose a FRIEND… time will heal though…
but to my dear FREN, i know u somehow will be reading this blog … eventhough u cancelled ur blog and ur FB …like to wanted to get rid of us…get us out of ur life… or doesnt want to get in touch with us… IM ok… i respect ur decision… but i will still smile and say HI to you when i sees u n ur hubby… but i just wanted to tell u… if u need a friend… LIMADANGLIANS will be there…u can count on to… actually i dont hv to tell u that…u already knew about it but we also understand that you have to think about ur family too.. us here in limadangs NEVER force you to choose ur frens or family…
i have experience this…when i got married to ahfad… i seemed to lost all my frens… i choose to be with my hubby all the time… afad keluar sama kawan.. tapi saya tidak… my fren is only ahfad… some things u can talk or tell ur hubby…but not all…some things u need to let it out to ur fren…seriously… i know… sampai kami separated (mesti limadanglians terkejut kan..but im telling bukan mau kasi buruk kami laki bini but for the learning experience) because we spent to much time together tp kalau ada tidak puas hati… tidak buli let it out because thats our spouse… so me and afad decided to give it a try but to change a lil bit of our life… he can spend with his frens… and i can too…without thinking the other way round…. what we did was… i followed afad to his outings…his frens… get to know his frens… me n his frens became close… and Ahfad have to do the same way with my frens… he has to join my group of frens… so that he knows my friends are not bad as he thinks…but AFAD juga malakat sama my frens… now if i go outing without him pun ok because he is happy with my friends… and i let him do his outing (provided i know where la ) eventhoug pulang 4-5 pagi…. like elaine said TRUST… to gain trust…
who am i..giving marriage advice…but just telling you the truth that what i have been through… ba tulis panjang2 pun kena aim juga nnt…matai..patut apa sa tulis nie..tulis d blog ba kan…hahahahaah
ba cukup…sambung nnt la…
PUBLIC APOLOGY TO CINDUTT
i’m making this public apology because takut kana “putus kawan” pasal like last year,i wont be able to attend her raya open house..hehehehe
hey mae,jan lagi ko kana trick ah macam last year..janji mau ramai2 pi rumah cindutt tp sia inda muncul2 ni sampai mae balik2 call,padahal sia masi lagi d aussie…kekekekek…
luke: uinah public apology ah… u r forgiven bcos u r far away unlike SOME people who r here in sabah… hehehe
Luke, baguslah ko tau what is happening around… update… update… he he he… tu lagu Luke nda blh nyanyi sdh tu d karaoke… kana BAN! lol… klu dulu lagu wajib c Ben, skarang lagu nda bulih nyanyi… btw, sa rinbdu lagu Lady ko… he he he
Cindutt, sa ada datang tu tau… lol…
Wahhh Cinduttt, ni kali ko ksh kalah Mae ni… punya panjang… luahan hati yg bgt deep sekali… well, bgtlah nasihat dr org yg berpengalaman… apa yg penting, to talk, compromise n trust… semuanya akan OK!
1st > ManD.. i LO’VO U. tambah koleksi. ekeke…
2nd > Hi Luke. ahaa.. dak ingat lagi.. tapi.. since ko kasi ingat.. wahhaa.. iya lor. ko ar..?! mmg kejam woo. sa ni yg LURUS BENDUL ni.. picaya ja ni. tapi dakpa.. sudah sa LUPA. Luke… P-A utk sa.. since sa sdah ter’INGAT balik ni?! teda ka? wahaha.. JJ! Luke ko UPDATED ar.. Mmm.. ada spy gia. ehe.
3rd > sob sob sob.. sikit mo meraung siot sa sini opis ni ndutt ehehe.
ya bha kan Ndutt, kita dak rapat ma. ko dgn ni group juga.. sa dgn group sa sendiri2 ni. i miss them so much yoo.. (dlong-twu, ichie-kk, rima-kk, anne-papar, belle-labuan, onny-bintulu, ijan-kudat, acny-still missing!). mo bawa dorang join.. MEREKA masing2 sibuk dgn hidupan harian. hmm..?!!
ndutt, bila gia ko O-H tu raya?! sb kan.. musim raya ni kali kan.. kami(me,flx n flory) sana GUNUNG KINABALU. 19hb-21hb Sept. sa lupa bha.. tapi bukan ngam2 time raya bha tu kan.. kali dlm raya 3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 kan..?! wahhaa…. LUPA ni. (memory LOSt) sorry.
nama kami(me n manD) yg kena sebut ar.. hmm, rajin kan. aha. i’ve learnt frm the mistake.. wont give MANY comment anymore. biar SUMBUNG drpd apa yg kena ckp tu.. di PUTAR BELILITkan oleh org2 BIADAP OTAK! mmg c mae pelik bha.. depan mata, tau senyum ja. tapi bila d sini or mana2 la yg menaip punya.. LAJU bha tu otak. kalau ngam timing. ehhee..! bha.. PENUH sudah ni. 1 kali ja.. bukan berKALI-KALI. ahaha.. kasi CHAN org len.
ndutt, sad to read ceta dlman ko.. tapi.. DULUUUUUuuuuuuuuu punya story morning glory ba tu kan. NOw, ehehe… sendiri tau sendiri la bha kan. ehe.
4th > Laine.. cukup sudah 1,500 words ka?! ehhee…
5th > Ben.. and the rest.. my GIRL’FRENz and BOY’FRENZ… I LOVE U ALL. MUAH MUAH MUAH.
6th > Flx.. 143 very much. my frenz r ur frenz now. muah~~~~~~~~~!! sambung nanti. wahhaa…!! sensor..!!
haahahahahaha…nasib kana terima sia punya public apology…
mandy,macam sia lupa2 suda ni tau menyanyi…laaaaaammmmmaaaaaaa suda inda pi karaoke
Ben:’THIS IS IT’
Cind: Sedih cerita ko…sob sob… btw, raya tahun lalu sa teda.. raya tahun ni tia tau.. besa sa di kg 1 minggu. so,lau sa di kampung sa tia dapat join la. sa pun awal2 buat PA k.. hehe..
Luke: Lama teda dengar kabar..
ManD & Mae : Kamu juga la yang pemes
To all the limadanglians: Sapa2 yang berpuasa tu.. Selamat Berpuasa.. jan nda puasa.. Masa raya semua dijemput hadir beraya di rumah saya di Gadong, Beaufort.
p/s: Happy to join this group.. Love u all… MMMuuuuuaaahhhxx!
Cindy: When u said kipochi sister. U meant me kan? K.A. Kipochi lagi tu..but it sounds cute tho’ hahahahiahaha… Luahan hatimu amat panjang yo..
Mae: Nda sampai pun 1.5k words.. hahahaha but if u were to include the words ‘PUBLIC APOLOGY’ di last paragraph pun ok tu. nda payah sampai 1.5k words. hahahahaha Janji ada those 2 words k…supaya nda payah angkat banner