My Definition About “Friend”
We all say we have friend or friends that is nice and truthful. However do you really think they are that truthful or they are your good friends? Where you can laugh and smile and maybe cry together?. My definition about “Friend” is totally different, I am sorry but this is how i value my friends around me. No matter you are my close friend or just a hi hi friend. I know you have your own definition about “FRIEND” well that one i leave it to you. Now i need to tell mine.
1)I don’t Talk Bad At Their Back
2)I don’t die with them, but i will safe them
3)Your OPINION about my friends is YOUR PERSONAL OPINION, and i don’t have to agree on that!
4)I don’t Play Two Role With My Friends
5) Friendship is about Trust,Loyalty and Rationalism
6) I respect Your Personal Interest!
7) I only have good View and Comment about my friends
8)If You Don’t Like my friends, Then Why Should i LIKE you?
9)If you think you are good, and your friends around you are bad, WHY still mingle around with them?
10) I don’t COW DUNK my friends at all! I love them as they are!!
My mom always remind me that: Having so many friends around you is not something good. Because you will never know who is good and bad. Sometimes you realize some of them is very bad, but maybe it is too late to know about it. Not that my mom want me to become an anti social person….But she simply don’t want me to end up with people who will say nice things in front of me and bad things behind my back…
The only reason why GOD give us Brain, is to let you be able to think logically before you say anything about any particular subject. Please please please.. use your brain ya people. Am giving this free definition for everybody and everyone in general this is applicable to everybody who drop by to my blog here!
Just remember this: “If You have no nice things to say, Just Keep Your Mouth Shut”
Or … Cakap siang pandang pandang cakap malam dengar dengar.
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I know I have good friends around! And I love them very dearly…and I wont be able to choose if I have too! If only I can have both, that would be great…hukhukhuk…
d kesempatan ni.. sa ingin mengucapkan…
I LOVE YOU… my FRENz. to ALL.
1)I don’t Talk Bad At Their Back
cuma kan.. kdg2 kita sbagai MANUSIA ni.. dak sedar… yg kita menyakiti hati KAWAN. bukan Niat.. cuma tu la. kdg2 kita dak tau pun.. yg apa yg kita ckp tu… adalah CKP D BELAKANG or saja CKP2 KOSONG then org yg menyampaikan tu yg BUAT2. cthnya. setakat ni… sa blum dpt tau la.. sa ni salah 1 jenis yg pandai begitu ka dak ka.. sa dak tau. HARAP TIDAK la. mana la tau.. saja2 CKP2 KOSONg then.. rupanya… tu la yg d maksudkan dgn CKP2 D BELAKANG. tapi… mmg ada ORG yg jenis ni la… dia tau dia begitu.. tapi.. HABIT kan.. dak dpt UBAH. dah jadi TABIAT! ehehe.
2)I don’t die with them, but i will safe them
= ni sa NO COMMENT. bukan sb ada APA2.. hmm.. mmg teda benda yg buli d comment. eheheh.
3)Your OPINION about my friends is YOUR PERSONAL OPINION, and i don’t have to agree on that!
= kdg2 sa pandai begini.. maksud sa.. bila sa dengar ORG2 CKP yg c polan c polan ni JAHAT or KEJAM or dak BAGUS.. sa mudah terikut DAK SUKA.. sb sa cuma dengar2 ckp ja. kelemahan!! tapi lama2… then pandai OK sendiri. ambil sikap.. KO KO SA SA. sa dak kacau ko.. ko jangan kacau sa. NGAM!!
4)I don’t Play Two Role With My Friends
= oo.. ni TALAM ni kan..!! ya.. sa rasa.. jadi TALAM utk kebaikan… dak kisah. kdg2 demi dak mo cari pasal or cari penyakit.. tidak salah kita buat TALAM. baik d depan. ehehe. tidak la ba.. KUTUK SETENGAH HIDUP d belakang.. cuma, jangan NAMPAK sgt. kasian org tu. kalau STRAIGHT FORWARD ja… sa rasa.. susah juga mo cari kwn ni. ehehe..! jangan jadi TALAM yg dak tau malu… tu yg dak BAGUS tu. sedar2 la diri. LOLs.
5) Friendship is about Trust,Loyalty and Rationalism
= agreed on tis
6) I respect Your Personal Interest!
= yes!!
7) I only have good View and Comment about my friends
= kdg2.. tidak salah kita kasitau KWN pasal BURUK.. supaya c kwn kita tu.. tau mana 1 sifat or sikap dia perlu ubah demi mengelakkan kwn yg lain2 dak LARI jauh2. tapi.. kita cari kwn ni.. dah tau dak ngam dgn sikap or sifat yg kwn tu… buat apa terhegeh2.. undur diri la ba kan. ehehehe..!! kalau dak ngam tu.. dak payah la ba pAKSA mo kasi NGAM. sadis!!
8)If You Don’t Like my friends, Then Why Should i LIKE you?
= ahahahaa….. ni utk kwn baru ni. adi di.. kasian. dakpa la.. BUAT2 la HAL sendiri. ahaha..!!
9)If you think you are good, and your friends around you are bad, WHY still mingle around with them?
= ni baru la.. ada 1 alasan kenapa. HABIT! dak kisah berapa byk kali dia KUTUK kwn sendiri.. dak kisah berapa ratus kali dia mo LARI.. tapi masi lagi hanging around with them. ni la ni penyakit… TELIGUNG TAHAP DEWA.
10) I don’t COW DUNK my friends at all! I love them as they are!!
= YES! ni la yg patut berlaku. kita terima seadanya. mereka dpt terima kita seadanya. HODOH ka.. CANTIK ka.. BESAR ka.. KURUS ka.. kalau NGAM CETA…. TERUSkan lah!!
ben.. tau2 sa comment plak pasal 1/2/3 ko tu kan. bukan comment… cuma.. kira cam sa Setuju la ba. ehehe..!!
PEACE!!!! XOXO!!
hi ben! hi man-d! hi all! longgg time didnt pass by ur blog.
talking bout friends… i have few best buddies, lotsa ordinary friends, n also some that just dont deserve to be called “Friends”. Im into this phrase “A friend in need is a friend indeed”. And currently, im in a situation where some ppl that i used to call them “friends” are backstabbing me n my friends from the back. But thank God the situation has actually opened up my mind, realizing what the real world is.
Some ppl will only try to bcome your friends either bcoz of your money, or looks, or just bcoz you are famous or you know lots of famous ppl. In other words, they are just trying to take advantage from you. Like a parasite. They’ll use you, then they’ll dump. How pathetic these ppl are. Too pretentious. Thank God now i know how to handle these situations, lil by lil.
ben, tajuk ni bikin sa rasa mcm mo chow ja dari labuan… hahahaa…. nasib ada sebilangan kecil dari org yg sa kenal yg masi boleh sa pggil kawan… hati² memilih kawan… mo jadi karam singh walia ni… kawan senang senang mo cari, kawan susa susa mo cari… hehe..
wow Mae, mmg ndak dapat ksh kalah ko bah klu mo mengeluarkan idea tu…hohoho…salute Tahap Dewa ni bosss!!!
Na-O, hi there…mana ko oh, lama menghilang ni? Mo makan dim sum ko ni tau…hehehe…
Well, if you cant accept ur friends as they are, then go n mingle with others who u think is up to ur standard but if you do love them, dun ever judge them coz u dun have the rite to do so! And I learnt this from Ben which is very useful, ‘If You have no nice things to say, Just Keep Your Mouth Shut‘…100% agreed! Cakap belakang, kin tambah dosa ja tu tau!
SA PUN MAU TAIP PANJANG2 BAH…TAPI SIAPA LA DAPAT KASI KALAH SI MAE…. tukang pengomen paling handal….ehheeheh
wakakaka… SINDIRAN korang tu ba.. STRAIGHT btl. wakakakaka..!! tapi dak pa… sa terima kasih juga. ahahaha. TIMA KASI.. TIMA KASI.
MAE…….. tu bukan SINDIRAN…tapi PUJIAN laaaaaa… dlm kesibukan tgk wayang cina ko tu..sempat juga ko mengomen
suddenly i miss ruth… ;( sedihhh… uhukkksss…
man-d: hi!!!!! hehe… me menghilang coz tlampau bz. i miss my old frens… sad sad.
i wonder why many of us ada saja tdk ngam with one or two of our colleagus. got this “ppl” here oso at my place that i used to call a friend and whenever there’s sth wrong she did to me (as in backstabbing me), i’ll just keep it to myself coz i don’t want to hurt her. but suddenly weeks ago she backstabbed me yg melampau ody, so i tried to talk to her but my boss adviced me not to do so. my boss said “org begitu mmg tdk senang hidup dia tu”… and she was rite. i dont have to say what happened to dat backstabber, but i’m relieved. haha…
and i learnt what this phrase means “Cakap siang pandang pandang cakap malam dengar dengar”… hehehe… u’r rite bro! i’ve learnt my lesson, and i’ve learnt what the real world is. many2 types of behaviour, and we must understand that. dat’s what i learnt. hahah… punya lama baru skrg sedar… hahah… tia pa… masih ada lagi masa2 hadapan…
aHAHAHA. iya ba Ndut.. TIMA KASI.. THANK U. Na-o.. ada sa tanya c ruth napa dak bawa ko.. dia ckp.. dia dak sempat CARI ko ma. len kali dia kata. ehehe. sa pun.. hampir2 LUPA suda gia nama ko… bukan lupa… cuma, dak ingat. wakakakakak..!! dak ba. ingat juga ma… dlm masa.. mmm sa pikir2 kan.. 10second ja ba. ehehe. siou noh. bukan sengaja.
Mae: bawa pi mana? pi makan? kekeke… dimaaaafffkan… kakakaka…
What you perceived as friends on your list, is quiet standard ordeal. Dont you think so? A true friend is a person support your back. No one can really define a really true friend. A true friend only comes without any agenda only care. What I’m trying to imposed is, most definately a good friend will try to be present and understand. So is to comment and give true self examine. Some just not REAL friend, only act as parasites. Suck you till you out~ Some just happen to be there, in the moment, involving and doing what everyone is doing – mingle. Some just move on to another phrase, which is, looking forward to another day, remembering the past only a memory. But definately, a true friend is hard to find. Cherish yours as you grow…