Can You Handle Rejection?
Hmmm well sitting inside my room (hotel) makes me bored…thou am a laid back person but..today i just feel like i want to talk with somebody…. i mean anybody. however i don’t have anyone now hmmm friends busy with works…here.. (KL) so call them for some coffee also said..Opps benny not today..am in the middle of doing “something” heheh i don’t know what the something is, but i can pretty sure it is something important.
Well i think my friend just rejected my invitation? Correct? Well if only you can read…then you might be able to understand why i said so hahaha. Rejection is bad, but How i bad is bad anyway? How can you handle this rejection? or can you really handle rejection?
I know rejection can really hurts you and can make your really down..but can you really tell or can you really predict when this rejection could possibly happen? i say very hard.
When i say rejection..it is not necessary exacly like what happen to me it could be something else eg,
1) Rejection of Life
2) Jobs
3) Loves
4) Friends
5) Family
6) more and more more more…
how many times did you face rejection in your life? consider am asking about any type of rejection (loves,friends,family.works,colleague etc etc) Feel Free to response in my comment section.
Well basically nobody gonna loves rejection or even like it in the first place…but i wanna know how do you actually handle rejection? wanna share? don’t want? Hey! remember sharing is caring ok? share your experienced.
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Nov 2nd, 2007 at 2:14 am
How to handle rejection? hmm…that is a good question…Do you handle rejection by ignoring it? or pretend it doesn’t hurt? or Do you get revenge? Well, as for me, I normally just ignore it and sometimes pretend it doesn’t hurt. I normally get over it easily…I donno why…maybe, nda pernah feel rejection yg teruk ni…that’s y lah…
Rejection is a lesson to learn how to be a stronger person ~ I have to agree with this…
Nov 2nd, 2007 at 8:26 am
Man-D: same here .. but sometime have to let it go la.. if me .. i go watch sad movie and nangis .. hahahahah… one thing i dun like .. most ppl think i am strong inside !!! i am not !!!!
ben: tips .. lau rasa cam pressure jak kana reject .. think of the bad think u want to to for that rejection .. payback la.. but just think .. jan buat ahh.. nanti kana tangkap pulis..:p
and its not the end of the world la..
Nov 2nd, 2007 at 11:28 am
Ouch!* For sure it’s hurt darl! But it depends on which type of rejections. Rejection from our loved ones must be the most hurtful thing, in my opinion. Loved ones - Family, Friends, relationships… How do I handle rejections? At the moment, I’ll just accept it as it goes. Getting too much of it makes me immune to it. Some Rejections can lead to Depression sometimes. I’ve tried to avoid rejection to others as I have experienced the impact to myself. But sometimes, it’s better to say “Sorry, I can’t…” than accepting something that later will make u feel unwanted. Do i sound sceptical? adehhh… this is what i called Pessimistic Minded. hahah…
Nov 2nd, 2007 at 2:01 pm
Rejection-One thing that i still could not handle well. Honestly. But i must say i am proud that i survived through it. Never easy…lots of crying,lots of questions,lots of anger and turn into regret.WORSE!!!!
So my 5 cents worth of advice-Grieve as much as you want/can but remember move on at the same..do not dwell too long in it as this will lead into depression.
Feb 5th, 2008 at 10:19 pm
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